Respect
To hold the other person as whole — never a project, never a prize.
The Programme
Weeks of learning, in the room in Melbourne or online from anywhere on earth — the same lessons either way, and the same door at the end of them.
Everything taught across Language of Love, MY FAMILIA, AISHITERU, MenAble and Miss Paloma, gathered into one place — and offered to you before you choose somebody, rather than after.
To hold the other person as whole — never a project, never a prize.
To say the true thing kindly, and to listen without preparing a counterargument.
To make a place where anything can be said, and nothing said is ever used against you.
To own the energy you bring into a room, and to say sorry well.
To hold a heart the way you would want yours held.

A small group, in Melbourne, learning together — the people beside you become the first people you know here.

The same programme, for anyone who cannot be in the room — from anywhere on earth, at your own pace, with the same door at the end.
A person who never meets anyone still leaves able to love better.
Everyone in the room learned the same things you did. An introduction here is one person, with a reason — never a deck of faces to dismiss with a thumb — and a conversation you both already know how to have.